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Amen, friend... Amen. It gave me an uneasy feeling about a close family member, one whom I still need to watch out for. The fact is we must always be on guard and take precautions of various kinds. Good post.
ReplyDeleteexcellent...keep going
ReplyDeleteAmen, thanks
ReplyDeletemy god u people r completely paranoid.i bet ur all conspiracy theorists as well. just live a little .i do and as a lifelong malignant narcissist i can only say that ur bleeding hearts prove us right every time
ReplyDeleteI am very grateful for your wonderfully insightful articles! I was raised by two alcoholic, physically and emotionally abusive narcissistic parents. They ruined all 5 of their children's lives, and still continue to do so, into their elderly years.I have two brothers and two sisters. My 4 siblings have all had drug and alcohol addictions, as well. My older sister also had anorexia that almost killed her. I am 1 of 2 siblings, that were the hated and blamed scapegoats, and the other was my oldest brother. My husband, (who was also abused by his drunk narc mom), and I, are now in a 25 yr marriage, succeeded in not allowing this extreme dysfunction to occur with our own two college age kids. Our horrible childhoods were hard, but it made us made better parents, for living through it!
ReplyDeleteAnonymous, thank you for your message. You and your husband are living proof that there is functional life beyond the twisted world of the narcissist. If we can survive their destructive influence, and learn from their horrifyingly bad example then we can make it stop with us.
ReplyDeleteYou are a human success story of the greatest kind!
It still frightens me now how easily my ex husband uses his psychopathy. And the more I read, the more convinced I am of my sister's narcissism. I, and my children, haven't had contact with either person for over two years (3 in the case of my sister) but still I am frightened by their strength to mould others...
ReplyDeletethank you for this excellent insight because pity is exactly what always draws me back to the MN. and it is very helpful to know that pity is unwarranted and just a ploy they use.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous,
ReplyDeleteYou're welcome. I find they like to play the martyr role too. They're always in con and control mode. There's absolutely nothing authentic about narcissists. Everything about them is contrived and done entirely for effect.
You are an awesome writer! Great article and Excellent Website! Narcissists are reprobates, as well! If allowed by your website, please post another good website about narcissistic reprobates is www.luke173ministries.org. The site is a religious one, but still but speaks the truth about narcissists' unacceptable behavior and how to rid yourself of them, without guilt. Thanks, again!
ReplyDeleteAnonymous,
ReplyDeleteI love that word "reprobate" in all its varying definitions. I found luke ministries a few years ago through Anna V's blog and found the site to be an excellent source of information on NPD. The article on what it means to go NC is probably the closest thing I have to a religion. It definitely speaks the truth. Like Anna V - who wrote from a Christian perspective - I don't find the writer preachy. Like Anna V, I believe the writer is a Realist who happens to be religious. Both writers and their blogs helped me immensely with their unwavering REALISM. I will certainly add this blog to my list for its firm grip on the REALITY of NPD.
Thanks for bringing the website to my attention.
read hitler stalin bin laden gadaffi the dwarf who rules north korea , all malignant narcissists all fascists.
ReplyDeleteno doubt there will be some narcissists stalking this site , looking to spot someone the bully and looking to learn about how humans think.
ReplyDeletethese freaks are not people ,they are creatures, parasites and like other predators they are cowards.
to any narcissistic creatures reading this - the game is up ! we ,the humans are getting educated and we will expose you as the evil freaks you are . we know that you abuse your families we know that you are jealous of everything good and loving even your children. we are coming after you and inch by inch we will destroy you . you will find yourselves ,just like hitler , gaddafi ,saddam hussain in a hole surrounded by humans. get your paranoia round that narcs because its all true and you are now the hunted.
Uh oh, looks like someone's jealous we got hearts.
ReplyDeleteAnonymoous,
ReplyDeleteA malignant narcissist did leave a comment on this blog post:
Anonymous said...
my god u people r completely paranoid.i bet ur all conspiracy theorists as well. just live a little .i do and as a lifelong malignant narcissist i can only say that ur bleeding hearts prove us right every time
I thought the comment was pathetic, made no sense and was completely ridiculous so I posted it. It was ignored by readers - as it should be - and the MN slithered off.
Other than perhaps mocking their insanity, I won't let a narc have a voice on this site. It's a bully free zone. So say whatever you want to about the narcs, all they can do is read it and weep. They're not intelligent creatures, and they lack empathy - so I doubt they'll ever figure out how we humans really think.
But we're on to THEM. So I hope they know; they're gonna get what's coming to them.
Lisa,
ReplyDeleteYou should do stand-up comedy. The next time a "a lifeflong malignant narcissist" (WTF?) leaves a comment, I'll consult with you for a snappy one line comeback.
Omg, that's hilarious! Wow, Lisette, I think you've successfully built a bridge between the human and narcissist communities! He, as a lifelong malignant narcissist, would like to kindly share his own life experiences and insights with you. House of Mirrors.com, bringing together humans and narcissists for open and respectful discussion since 2010. Thank you, Lisette, for finally providing a place where humans and narcissists can come together, share, and understand each other's unique lives and point of views. I never knew what a narcissist was before your site, and now I feel like I can understand them so much better!
ReplyDeleteLisa,
ReplyDeleteI think you just found my calling and my slogan:
House of Mirrors Inc., Bridging the gap between humans and narcissists since 2010.
I'm off to get the company incorporated.
Bahahahaha! Or, should I say - as I rub my hands together and tilt my head back drunk with power - Moihahahahaha!
I'd like a t-shirt. And a yard sign.
ReplyDeleteStep by step, we can build a peaceful community where narcissists and humans can live together in harmony. Lifelong Narcissist's testimony above opened my eyes. I had never known that people like Mr. Lifelong Narcissist, with lives like his, existed. I never knew that people in other parts of the world lived like this. This was truly a life-changing experience and I encourage everyone to donate to the House of Mirrors Inc. fund so that more narcissists can speak out and share their amazing never-before told stories. It is because of the work of people like Lisette that this previously completely unknown group of people finally have a chance to step out of invisibility and come out into the open to tell their life stories. Truly a charitable and important humane work.
Thank you so much for bringing the narcissists into the light. Without you, stories like that of Mr. Lifelong Narcissist would have gone unheard.
I believe in a peaceful future and we can do it together.
Anonymous said...
ReplyDeletemy god u people r completely paranoid.i bet ur all conspiracy theorists as well. just live a little .i do and as a lifelong malignant narcissist i can only say that ur bleeding hearts prove us right every time
Anonymous also said...Ow Q1605..cut that out ..that hurts!
Q1605 said ....I don't know what you are talking about. You're just paranoid!
Lisa, you'll be the spokesperson/PR/marketing expert of the organization.
ReplyDeleteq1605, you'll head-up the science lab and conduct "experiments" on the MNs (if you get my drift?)
I'll just maniacally rub my hands together and shout, "Moihahahahahaha!"
I can see the shirts now! On the back, we'll have to have Mr. Lifelong Narcissist's quote. And the front should say, "Save the Narcissists" with a giant sad face emoticon with a tear.
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