Have you heard of the “Streisand
Effect”? Essentially, it’s about
a shit ton of attention being drawn to information that’s in the process of being
repressed.
It’s interesting how narcissist “family”
members and flying monkeys somehow find anonymous ACON blogs. By identifying
with what is written and reacting so strongly to the content, they only admit
their guilt. But they don’t see it that way. They don’t think their violent and abusive behavior is
disgusting and despicable. They believe writing about it is. That, right there,
is brain on narc.
In the Malignant narcissist's warped and
twisted mind they feel entitled to
abuse the living shit out of us. They see it as their right. We – the victims –
have no right to object to the abuse. Being denied a defense is all part and
parcel of the narcissistic abuse bundle. Doesn’t that sound like a human rights
violation? When you look at it this way, you can see that narcissistic abuse is the most
insidious violation of human rights. Everything under the umbrella of
narcissistic abuse is virtually allowed under our justice system. I’m referring
to such crimes as character assassination, psychological violence, diminishing anothers' self-worth, blaming, shaming, ostracizing, shunning, mobbing, scapegoating and
worst of all, the malignant narcissist’s ability to usurp the will of another
and replace it with their own. Vandalizing a person’s car is a serious crime, but vandalizing a person's mind is nothing? A human being’s most precious
possession – their mind – is considered by our society to hold less value than
an inanimate object. Trashing property is something, but trashing a person's reputation is nothing? A damaged life is irrelevant, but a dented vehicle is important?!
A human being's most scared personal qualities, the very assets that make-up our nature and that no one but ourselves has a right to stake a claim to - OUR MINDS, OUR CHARACTER, OUR HUMANITY - are precisely what the malignant narcissist feels entitled to get their grubby paws on and destroy. Why? Because they see human beings as nothing but objects. These freak truly believe they own us. That means they believe they own our indentity. The malignant narcissist feels entitled to steal, trash, vandalize, destroy, neutralize, and if all else fails, erase the very qualities that make us who we are as an individual, and replace them with a piece of fiction created to support their own self-serving narrative. By dirtying you up by fraud, the seedy narcissist gets to look clean by comparison - which is also fraud. And, in extreme case, the malignant narcissist doesn't just replace a person's true identity with a fake one, they actually replace a person with themselves. It's no exagerration that the malignant narcissist wants to control and dominate others - her ultimate goal is to literally possess them. Malignant narcissists deliberately set-out to usurp a person's free-will and replace it with their own will. That, is the biggest power rush a malignant narcissist will ever receive: to drain you hollow and fill you with themselves. That, is the very definition of evil.
Malignant narcissists have zero respect for human life.
Things need to change!
Everything that falls under the umbrella of
narcissistic abuse needs to fall under the jurisdiction of crimes against
humanity and these crimes need to be punishable by law. We all know that the
worst offenders of these crimes – malignant narcissists – have established a
“pattern” of destroying people. Patterns don’t lie. Patterns prove malice of
intent. Patterns permit legal action. Patterns are quite prosecutable if you
write sensible laws and enforce them.
Speaking of patterns, every malignant narcissist I’ve had the misfortune of
knowing has demonstrated a pattern of
obsessive stalking behavior. Stalking is currently a punishable offense.
Perhaps these narcissists should consider that when they are hurling threats
and accusations about what they find while they stalk, spy and monitor us on the
internet.
I’m sure I speak for most ACONs when I say
I wish I had nothing to write about. I truly wish the narcissists would
magically transform into loving, caring human beings that genuinely regret what
they have done and are willing to pay-off the debt they owe me with good deeds.
Unfortunately, I know that will never happen. Not only will the narcissists
never admit their wrong doing, there simply isn’t enough time left for them to
right their wrongs. I used to read
comments on my blog and think to myself; thank god my family isn’t THAT crazy.
Little did I know THAT crazy was coming down the pike. The narcissists continue
to ramp-up their abuse of me and continue to give me tons of material to write
about. I have volumes of content stored in my mental hard drive. If the
narcissists want me to stop writing about their crimes, they should stop
committing them.
Narcissistic abuse is a crime in progress.
For adult children of narcissists the abuse occurs every day in real-time. It
lives in our bodies, it lives in our minds, and it lives in our souls. The
narcissists don’t need to launch an attack to hurt us. Don’t they know they
have already done permanent damage? They should see that as winning. But don’t
mistake this declaration as defeat on my part. I’m simply stating facts.
You narcissists should think about that
while you’re strutting around on stage putting on a melodramatic performance of
suffering victim.
You narcissists should also consider the Streisand Effect when you are trying to
silence the true victim. It’s likely to produce the opposite result and draw attention
to the thing you hate more than your target – Exposure.
According to Wikipedia: The Streisand effect is the phenomenon
whereby an attempt to hide, remove, or censor a piece of information has the
unintended consequence of publicizing the information more widely, usually
facilitated by the Internet. It is an example of psychological reactance,
wherein once people are aware something is being kept from them, their
motivation to access the information is increased.
It is named after American entertainer Barbra
Streisand, whose 2003 attempt to suppress photographs of her residence in
Malibu, California, inadvertently drew further public attention to it. Similar
attempts have been made, for example, in cease-and-desist letters to suppress
numbers, files, and websites. Instead of being suppressed, the information
receives extensive publicity and media extensions such as videos and spoof
songs, often being widely mirrored across the Internet or distributed on
file-sharing networks.
Mike Masnick of techdirt coined the term in
2005 in relation to a holiday resort issuing a takedown notice to urinal.net (a
site dedicated to photographs of urinals) over use of the resort's name.
How
long is it going to take before lawyers realize that the simple act of trying
to repress something they don't like online is likely to make it so that
something that most people would never, ever see (like a photo of a urinal in
some random beach resort) is now seen by many more people? Let's call it the
Streisand Effect. — Mike Masnick,
The term invoked Barbra Streisand who had
unsuccessfully sued photographer Kenneth Adelman and Pictopia.com for violation
of privacy. The US $50 million lawsuit endeavored to remove an aerial
photograph of Streisand's mansion from the publicly available collection of
12,000 California coastline photographs. Adelman photographed the beachfront
property to document coastal erosion as part of the California Coastal Records
Project, which was intended to influence government policymakers. Before
Streisand filed her lawsuit, "Image 3850" had been downloaded from
Adelman's website only six times; two of those downloads were by Streisand's
attorneys. As a result of the case, public knowledge of the picture increased
substantially; more than 420,000 people visited the site over the following
month.
