Saturday 31 December 2016

Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists is Now an eBook and its FREE!






2016, you were an asshole! Good riddance!

I really hope 2017 is a kick-ass year for us all and in an effort to start it off right, I thought I would ring in the New Year with some book promotions.

First off, I have combined my two eBooks Breaking Through the House of Mirrors: Clarity for Adult Children of Narcissists & Exit the House of Mirrors: Freedom from Narcissistic Abuse into one volume.  

Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists (the 350 page paperback) is now an eBook.  Breaking Free is both eBooks combined plus a few extra articles and it’s only $9.99 for a limited time!

I was originally selling each eBook for $9.99 and now you can get both eBooks for the price of one!

PLUS anyone that has purchased Breaking Through the House of Mirrors (the first eBook) can now get Breaking Free for FREE just by re-downloading the title on Amazon.

The folks at Amazon have informed me that once the new edition has been approved, they will notify customers on their Kindle device or email to let them know the revised eBook (Breaking Free) is ready to download. I suspect it should be any day now.

Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists is already available to purchase on Amazon in eBook and paperback format – so go for it if you don't have a copy!

PLUS if you buy a copy of the paperback Breaking Free you can receive a FREE eBook version for a limited time.

And remember, if you own a copy of the eBook you can always re-download updates for Free!

So to recap: the two eBooks used to be $9.99 each, or $19.99 for both. Now you can get both eBooks in one volume for $9.99, AND you can get the paperback AND the eBook for $21.99.

Ok. Enough of the sales pitch.

I wish you all a very Happy New Year!

Oh, one last plug… if you like Breaking Free please write a review on Amazon. Reviews are really valuable to me as an author and they also help other ACONs who are stumbling around in the dark searching for information.

I wish you all a fan-freakin'-tastic 2017 and may every year to come bring you peace from your narcissist tormentors.

Lisette


A reader sent me this photo of her bad ass cat lounging around learning about malignant narcissism.  

Saturday 24 December 2016

Malignant Narcissist Mother Sent Me A Christmas Greeting




It’s that special time of year again. Time of peace on earth and goodwill toward men. It’s also the time of year malignant narcissists across the land rear their ugly heads with intimidation and control tactics. It’s the time of the year the malignant narcissist’s fangs come out.  It’s the time of year the malignant narcissists ramp-up their bullying and abuse. It’s the time of year the greedy, scheming, thieving malignant narcissists work overtime to cover-up their crimes and vilify the whistleblower.

Christmas eve 2008, I discovered the malignant narcissist sister and malignant narcissist mother had been cyberstalking me and gaslighting me on ACON Blogs for over a year. When I telephoned MN sister to inquire about my discovery, she called the police on me, told them I was "mentally ill" and "violent" and that I "threatened" her and the MN mother. She told my dad I called her up crying asking for help. She told my neighbors that I was off "medication." Three different stories. I guess the lying bitch just couldn't make-up her mind which angle to work.

Fast forward to the present: Christmas 2016, I discover the malignant narcissist sister has stolen over one million dollars in assets from my late father’s estate. Yup, you read that right. The malignant narcissist sister has STOLEN over $1 million dollars from an estate that is to be divided equally 3 ways. This includes real estate, cash, and personal property. And that’s only what I know about! I suspect the grand total of the theft is much higher. What this means is she has given most of what should be in the pot to herself and screwed me and my brother out of our fair share. I also suspect she has floated the MN mother and MN flying Monkey large lumps of cash along with countless possessions from the estate. There is nothing left as far as my dad’s personal belongings go. She took it all. I got a big fat zero. And the money the MN witch didn’t steal she spent, and what she didn’t spend she squandered because she would much rather see funds go to waste then go to me. The bitch is a criminal and she has fucked with my future.  


So, in the midst of dealing with the cruel way the MN sister informed me of my father’s death (through a callously indifferent cold hearted low-life lawyer) and while I was coming to terms with the fact that I was not told that my dad had died until 9 days after the fact, and while I was in the process of still grieving the loss, I learn the malignant narcissist sister has stolen over $1 million dollars worth of assets from the estate and screwed me out of my inheritance.

Then my late father’s birthday rolled around. Then I met with a lawyer to decide what course of action to take against the MN sister and her organized crime ring. Then I leave the MN mother a few voicemail messages saying she must be so proud of her frankendaughter for abusing and exploiting a defenseless old man and stealing her sister and brother’s inheritance.  I also let the MN mother know that I am well aware that she is harboring stolen property; property that should form part of the estate and rightfully go to the beneficiaries (me and my brother). Letting that witch have it was worth breaking 26 years no contact.

The next night Coppers pounded on my door at 11:30pm and woke me up from my slumber. I was not surprised at all. I almost said, “What took you so long?"" and "You got the wrong guy. It's the little old granny who made the call that you want. She's housing stolen loot in the party room of her senior living complex, and her condo is a safe house for criminals.

Yup, the malignant narcissist mother and MN sister called the cops on me for getting upset about their million dollars plus heist. So just like 8 years ago when they called the cops on me because I caught them in the process of criminally harassing me; they called the police on me because I caught them looting my dad’s estate. Typical fucking MN criminals. The Coppers told me that the MNs didn't want me to communicate with them, including through third parties. I said, "You mean like the way they are now communicating with me through a third-party?" Typical idiotic MN projection machines.

I let the coppers know what the MN mother and sister are all about and I went back to bed. Nothing surprises me anymore when it comes to those two. The malignant narcissist hags framing me as the bad guy to take the heat off themselves is standard fare. They are absolutely delusional to think they will get away with it. But malignant narcissists truly believe they can transgress others in every conceivable way with immunity.  We’ll see about that. The last message I left to the MN mother was, “See you in court, bitches!” The fight to expose the malignant narcissists is now taking place in the arena of real life. I tell ya, the second book I’m working on is writing itself.

Speaking of books, you can purchase a copy of Breaking Free paperback HERE and the House of Mirrors e-books HERE and HERE . 

And please know that for every book purchased a malignant narcissist receives a metaphorical brick through their window. 

                                                                  

Friday 9 September 2016

I Was Just Informed My Dad Died Over a Week Ago




I received a phone call yesterday around 3:40 pm. I recognized the first few digits of the number being from the area where my dad lived. I knew my dad was dead. I let the call go to voicemail.

Sheri Yakashiro from RDM Law Firm spoke loudly and abruptly on speakerphone. “There has been a family emergency,” she said briskly. “Please call me back as soon as possible.”

I knew there was no “emergency.” I knew my dad was dead. I also knew that someone was in the office with the lawyer; otherwise why put the call on speakerphone?

I called back the lawyer. In an upbeat tone she asked me how I was. “Fine,” I said curtly. There was silence. Then she proceeded to tell me in a hurried, dispassionate manner that my dad had died and the malignant narcissist sister was in her office.

“When?” I asked. “Last Wednesday,” she said. That was 9 days ago. “Why am I only finding out about this now?” The lawyer stumbled and fumbled and used the long weekend and everyone being "too busy" and burial arrangements as an excuse. Long weekend? He died on a Wednesday. And why did this twit proclaim there was a “family emergency”? Obviously, my dad’s death was not being treated as an “emergency”  if I was being told about it more than a week after it happened.

I asked the dingbat lawyer where he died and apparently he was taken to the hospital on August 31st and died that same day at 5:00 pm.  I was informed of his passing 9 days after he died. By a lawyer. Who had me on speakerphone so the malignant narcissist sister could get a sadistic power rush from hearing my reaction. There was no reaction. I predicted this would happen. True to form, the malignant narcissist was power tripping, controlling the narrative and spying on me. True to form, the malignant narcissist/sociopath sister planned the entire scenario and used my dad as a weapon, even in death, to hurt me. She was hoping to feed off my pain. She even used estate funds to hire this lawyer so she could have a witness to use against me should the need arise. 

I asked the lawyer if there was a funeral. There was a long pause – the malignant narcissist sister was feeding her, her lines. “No,” she eventually replied.

Interesting that there was no funeral when “burial arrangements” was one of the excuses used not to call the dead man’s daughter to let her know he was gone. The Liar, er Lawyer, contradicted herself left and right. She received another cue from the sociopath. “I know that you and “Linda” (not the sociopath sister’s real name) are kind of estranged..."  "Pfft. Kind of estranged? I’m finding out about my dad’s death 9 days after it happened,” I replied. Long pause and more lines being fed to the Lawyer by the MN/sociopath director. “He died peacefully,” she said.

Yeah right. That’s what they always say. And I call bullshit. I doubt he died peacefully. I bet he felt alone and terrified and knew that he was slipping away, so an ambulance was called to take him to the hospital so he wouldn’t feel he was dying completely alone. At least nurses attending to his needs and doctors and patients milling about would be less terrifying then facing death alone in a dark, dingy apartment.

The lawyer then went on about his estate and how it’s in the hands of a bank. She explained that she is not an estate attorney and that she only called me as a favor to the sister. HA! She lied. She IS an estate lawyer that was retained by the sociopath sister to do her dirty work. The malignant narcissist sister wrote the script for this sick little scenario in advance and hired a lawyer to play a part and deliver lines. PATHETIC. It was a premeditated psychological assault.

I have not shed a tear for my dad. I’ve been grieving his death for years. Three years ago the malignant narcissist sister shoved him in a dumpy, dismal old folks’ home and moved into his beautiful townhouse. She took possession of ALL his property and took control of his finances and proceeded to drain not only his bank accounts and the contents of his home, but his mind as well. She drained him hollow and filled him with herself and used him as an object to hurt me. He ceased to exist as a person. He was dead inside and channeling her. As soon as she had face-to-face access to him, the transformation occurred quickly. Prior to this, she did all her dirty work over the phone and never made the effort to visit him or took the time to see him in person, so her long distance mind control tactics had its limits.

Being a greedy, parasitic opportunist, as soon as she had him locked-up in an oldies prison she swooped-in to hold his property and possessions hostage. She got it all. She even successfully poisoned his mind and destroyed our relationship with her unrelenting slime and malign campaign against me. But it didn’t stop there.

As soon as she had access to his finances, she cleaned out a line of credit I had held for 10 years and left me penniless. A couple of years later, when my dad offered to help me financially so I could get a hip replacement, she put a stop to it. I can barely walk these days.

Did I mention the malignant narcissist sister has never had to work a day in her life because the poor baby had a hip replacement as a teen? Did I mention she is worth millions from parasitically living off my dad and the MN mother? Did I mention she had not bothered to see my dad in over 10 years and only swooped in after she ordered her thug monkey to kick him out of his lovely home and put him in a tiny, cramped, dump? Did I mention she owns a mortgage free condo worth $750,000 AND my dad supported her in a second home (his townhouse) for 2 years while he rotted in that dump? Then she sold his townhouse.  Who do you think cashed-in financially from the sale of that real estate? Did I mention a few days before my dad died, and while acting as power of attorney, she had 2 condos from my father's estate transferred to herself and one to my brother, and I received no condo? Now the MN sister owns 3 properties without ever having worked a day in her life. 

Did I mention that I have been facing homelessness with a disability and chronic pain for the last few years, and if it weren’t for two friends loaning me money, I would be homeless. I had to sell my car to survive and can’t walk more than a block without limping and experiencing extreme pain. Did I mention I was assaulted, left for dead on the street and lost my job because of it? Did I tell you my dad offered to help me financially but the MN sister talked him out of it and spent his money on a "private decorator" and all new furnishings and decor for his apartment. Did I mention all this furniture "disappeared" after my dad died a few months later? Did I mention all the members of this wealthy “family” got a sadistic thrill knowing that I had to endure the intense stress of worrying about my father in addition to my basic food-clothing-shelter-physicals needs while having to cope with harassment from the police that the MN sister sicked on me because I dared to complain to her about her behavior? 

So here’s the kicker. THIS is the epitome of a malignant narcissist/sociopath’s tell-tale pathology: at the end of the conversation, the dip shit lawyer who clearly didn’t possess an ounce of sympathy or compassion and was basically hired to lie and act as a mouth piece for a sociopath said, and I quote: “I know this is really hard…..so… “Linda” brought some information on grief counseling for you if you want it.”

“Pffft. No thanks. I’ll deal with my grief in my own way,” I said.

The hypocricy is staggering.

For YEARS, the evil malignant narcissist sister trying to get me locked-up, drive me to suicide, a break-down or death and she wants to help me with my “grief” over my dead dad who she turned against me and kept me from seeing and then intentionally delayed telling me that he died?! The dad who she systematically brainwashed, abused and exploited until there was nothing left of him.


THAT is the very definition of treachery.

And to all the cowardly relatives who didn’t call me – even if they wanted to – because they were obeying the orders of the malignant narcissist sister – shame on you! 

Meet the callous lawyer who informed me my dad died. See the MN sister's review of the lawyer below.

 


Wednesday 7 September 2016

Is There Such a Thing as "Fuck You!" Lit? Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists is NOW ON SALE!




Is there such a thing as “fuck you!” lit? 

You bet there is!

Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists is now available!

6 x 9 trim, 346 pages, visually interesting, entertaining and informative!

The book is $21.99 and NOW available for International purchase at CreateSpace  HERE


Narcissists beware! We’re mad as hell and we're not going to take it anymore!
In this book, ACONs vent their rage at their “crazy” “abusive” “neglectful” and “self-centered” parents, siblings, relatives, ex-spouses, in-laws, friends, lovers, co-workers, neighbours – you name it!  We’ve had narcissists plague every aspect of our lives.

But in the process we learn how to decode the narcissist's playbook, execute strategies to never let a narcissist in our head, and defend and protect ourselves against abuse and even beat the narc assholes at their own game! 

Breaking Free is an awesome reference tool to learn everything you need to know about narcissism and malignant narcissists (and never let you forget!). It’s a compilation of 40 of the most popular blog articles with a glimpse at the stream of fury generated by each post. The book explores narcissistic abuse and the ways in which ACONs have been universally abandoned in the aftermath of emotional trauma and how embracing our outrage at cruel and unjust treatment can reconnect us with our self and help us break free from an abusive past. 


If you’re looking for a cool book (and an ACON legacy) filled with all the information you will ever need on Narcissists and Malignant Narcissism, Breaking Free: A Way Out for Adult Children of Narcissists will not disappoint!

If you like the book please spread the word! Let’s get the ACON message out there!


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